This is a corollary to the words within the "Problem-Solving" post and is a similar call for reliance on self. A particular young athlete often felt cowed and daunted by the so-called 'impressive' traits and characteristics of his teammates. They were "ripped." They were "huge." They were "towering giants." They were "intimidating." They were "better" and "more deserving of playing time." They were superior, in his mind. And these thoughts and beliefs arose before the first practice!
Lo and behold, when the young athlete who lacked in self-confidence hit the playing field, many of the impressive-looking teammates proved the adage 'look like Tarzan, play like Jane.' Most of his jitters and fears and expectations proved false, once the game started. In spite of their looks and prowess, many of the teammates who aced the 'look' test failed the 'compete' test.
It is {learned} human nature to doubt one's worth and believe that others are stronger, faster, bigger, better, smarter and more qualified. A champion prepares himself to compete, and trusts in his preparation, regardless of appearances. A champion knows that, in order for a coach or a teammate to believe in him, he must first believe in himself. Belief in self is a bedrock foundation of success and is never arrogant or without class. Too much confidence is better than too little. It is necessary, proper and fitting in the make-up of a winner. Be a winner, be your best, be yourself.
Lo and behold, when the young athlete who lacked in self-confidence hit the playing field, many of the impressive-looking teammates proved the adage 'look like Tarzan, play like Jane.' Most of his jitters and fears and expectations proved false, once the game started. In spite of their looks and prowess, many of the teammates who aced the 'look' test failed the 'compete' test.
It is {learned} human nature to doubt one's worth and believe that others are stronger, faster, bigger, better, smarter and more qualified. A champion prepares himself to compete, and trusts in his preparation, regardless of appearances. A champion knows that, in order for a coach or a teammate to believe in him, he must first believe in himself. Belief in self is a bedrock foundation of success and is never arrogant or without class. Too much confidence is better than too little. It is necessary, proper and fitting in the make-up of a winner. Be a winner, be your best, be yourself.